- 21 Eki 2015
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It is impossible to prevent lie, but it is possible to analyze the body language and prevent the person in front of us from deceiving us. The physical movements, facial expression and words of the person in front us are the main points that give him deficit(circumvention). If we know how to read like an open book the other person, we can easily identify the lie.
The person who lies is using general sentences. He uses; we were a few people rather than net numbers, we are crowded etc. To be honest, I dont want to be misunderstood, what is the benefit of lying, he references such statements a lot.
His answers are memorized answers. He tries to change or close the topic. Because what he says is different from the event that develops in consciousness, slip of the tongue occurs.
The liar can give unnecessary details to the question we ask to be believable. This causes him to talk contradictory because it will make him forget what he said. So it might be nice to ask a lot of questions to understand a lie. And if hes overreacting to even simple questions, it could mean hes lying, unless hes too angry.
If he overreacts to even the simplest question and says, Are you doubting me, it might be time to start a much better analysis or become a Sherlock.
To understand lie, we need to observe two basic situations.
Mood and Manners
Stress, tension or extreme calm are all clues. The person who tells the truth is comfortable, doesnt have to have a memory to remember, but the person who lies is just the opposite. Thats reflected in the mood. Being overstressed is the most common symptom. Being in self-defense, constantly questioning and the thought that he will reveal his lie dominates him.
Body Language and Physical Reactions
The person uses an exaggerated body language when telling you something. Eye and hand movements are actually the most important detail, turn eyes away or excessive eye contact, rubbing their hands frequently, sweating, blushing, the bodys reaction to sudden change in hormones.
In short, things that need attention;
Eye Contact
Direction of Eyes
Hiding mouth and face
Direction of Shoes
More or less information
Same answers
Exaggerated upright posture
Voice tone
Sweating
The person in front of us can be a professional, his lie has become a habit, so every fact is variable.
When we ask something that we know is absolutely correct, we can compare his response to another question. According to the researches, it is known that it is difficult to distinguish the lies of people who know the body language and master the subject. However, involuntary physiological reactions, such as the increased heat around the nose and eye socket, can address the person who is lying.
His choice of words also gives him away. So we need to care about the little details; the person who lies when asked confusing, open-ended questions notices you and either talks too much at once or changes tactics. That will help us catch the lie.
The person who lies in such cases:
He will repeat the question to save time before he answers our question.
A good liar can realize your manners, so he will gradually lie.
He will speak slowly in the name of producing the scenario and the process will speed up once he is convinced you believe it.
When you ask difficult questions, hell ask for time to think, focus on somewhere else and start talking.
Turkish Version: https://www.turkhackteam.org/sosyal-muhendislik/1922470-yalani-anlamak.html
The person who lies is using general sentences. He uses; we were a few people rather than net numbers, we are crowded etc. To be honest, I dont want to be misunderstood, what is the benefit of lying, he references such statements a lot.
His answers are memorized answers. He tries to change or close the topic. Because what he says is different from the event that develops in consciousness, slip of the tongue occurs.
The liar can give unnecessary details to the question we ask to be believable. This causes him to talk contradictory because it will make him forget what he said. So it might be nice to ask a lot of questions to understand a lie. And if hes overreacting to even simple questions, it could mean hes lying, unless hes too angry.
If he overreacts to even the simplest question and says, Are you doubting me, it might be time to start a much better analysis or become a Sherlock.
To understand lie, we need to observe two basic situations.
Mood and Manners
Stress, tension or extreme calm are all clues. The person who tells the truth is comfortable, doesnt have to have a memory to remember, but the person who lies is just the opposite. Thats reflected in the mood. Being overstressed is the most common symptom. Being in self-defense, constantly questioning and the thought that he will reveal his lie dominates him.
Body Language and Physical Reactions
The person uses an exaggerated body language when telling you something. Eye and hand movements are actually the most important detail, turn eyes away or excessive eye contact, rubbing their hands frequently, sweating, blushing, the bodys reaction to sudden change in hormones.
In short, things that need attention;
Eye Contact
Direction of Eyes
Hiding mouth and face
Direction of Shoes
More or less information
Same answers
Exaggerated upright posture
Voice tone
Sweating
The person in front of us can be a professional, his lie has become a habit, so every fact is variable.
When we ask something that we know is absolutely correct, we can compare his response to another question. According to the researches, it is known that it is difficult to distinguish the lies of people who know the body language and master the subject. However, involuntary physiological reactions, such as the increased heat around the nose and eye socket, can address the person who is lying.
His choice of words also gives him away. So we need to care about the little details; the person who lies when asked confusing, open-ended questions notices you and either talks too much at once or changes tactics. That will help us catch the lie.
The person who lies in such cases:
He will repeat the question to save time before he answers our question.
A good liar can realize your manners, so he will gradually lie.
He will speak slowly in the name of producing the scenario and the process will speed up once he is convinced you believe it.
When you ask difficult questions, hell ask for time to think, focus on somewhere else and start talking.
Turkish Version: https://www.turkhackteam.org/sosyal-muhendislik/1922470-yalani-anlamak.html